How to find your soul mate: stop looking (5 tips for women)
As stated above, women are supposed to be chased (men are hunters by nature). So, she stops trying to find a soul mate; you are violating the established protocol. For that reason, this article recommends five strategic moves. In addition to achieving your heart’s desire, they will help you avoid headaches, stress and sleepless nights.
5 tips
- Seek wisdom.
Since all good things come from above, prayer seems like the sensible first step. Discuss your desires with the Creator, not with your friends, co-workers, or family. During the conversation, don’t forget to listen! You will get the inside track. Unlike the others, he knows what is to come, as well as the master plan for your life. He is already on the move.
- Reposition yourself.
Instead of going on a hunting expedition, think about repositioning yourself. Now God is the master tactician and can maneuver like no other. Still, being in the right place doesn’t hurt. What places do you frequent? Are they appropriate? I, for one, know when I don’t fit in. Create an uncomfortable feeling. What’s more, do you hide like a hermit? Making yourself scarce will make you lose the divine connection.
- Check every encounter.
Did you notice that Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz stuck to her mission as she traveled down the yellow brick road? She met three different men: the lion, the scarecrow, and the tin man. Every male needed something. Guess what? Dorothy assessed her situation, encouraged, assisted but remembered the goal. Still, Dorothy returned to Kansas.
Similarly, we meet different men on this journey called life. They need encouragement, insight, or just someone to listen to them. It’s okay to help; God created women to nurture. However, she avoids giving more of yourself than is necessary. Dorothy knew what to give and what to keep. You?
Consequently, choosing the wrong path leads to confusion and delays. So, complete the task and then go back to the mission. You can’t afford to muddy the water. The stakes are too high.
- Being anxious about nothing.
Despair equals anxiety, and my Bible says not to worry about anything. Worry coupled with doubt drive you crazy. You start thinking and believing wrong things. “I am too old. Time is running out.”
Finally, he decides to take matters into his own hands. However, instead of progressing, he ends up taking five steps back. A word to the wise is enough. Despair is a dangerous perfume to wear. Aside from giving off the wrong scent, he doesn’t suit you.
- Grow your faith.
Simply put, this tip is crucial. Because? Growing your faith impacts every aspect of your life, not just receiving a soul mate. Faith goes the distance. You also need to commit to going the distance. Since faith comes by hearing and hearing, being saturated in the word is essential.
Are you ready to develop your faith muscles? Begin exercising daily by listening to the Word, studying, reading, meditating, speaking accordingly, and continuing on your feet even when it seems like nothing is happening. That’s why it’s called faith. Prepare to stand up.