Steady as she blows! Coming to terms with raw honesty in intimate relationships

Cosmic Therapy MODALITY: Honesty: What IS The True Meaning Of The Word?

You’re the last one who knows when you’re going to explode! But, hit you do for all the repressed shelter you carry. Instead of expressing your agitation in small, easily digestible doses, you explode as a huge volcanic thrust. What’s wrong with that? It’s not a lost thing, except it makes you feel guilty, sorry, and sorry. These unnatural ego-driven actions are the sediment that damages your behavior and your level of honest intimacy. Because? Because you are an infinitely pure innocent elevated divine being who in no way participates in the shameful actions of ‘trying to explain, excuse or defend’ what you do.

Human beings are, by contrast, complex creatures. But, they are absolutely lucid on a specific point: they will not be obligated to anyone. As much as it may seem, the underlying truth remains, a human being is not endowed with the faculties to be in debt to another. The obligation is not ‘natural and convenient’ for mortals and does not fit the character. Duty to oneself is the highest honor and when broken it brings unmentionable trouble. Obligation is stifling, regressively restrictive, quietly demanding, and, in the most uncomfortable way, humiliating. A fair and just exchange is carried out internally at all times for the holy reasons of the gods and will not be interfered with by compromising corrupt mortal obligation.

Obligation is something like forced entertainment! You are expected to provide ongoing payment services of such to the other in some implied manner. This untenable situation is not acceptable! The soul simply will not stand it. Did not the Master Jesus say: “Owe no one?” No matter the size of the so-called gift (binding offense), unless you incredulously rise to a place of total detachment from the gift or the giver, you will inevitably project anger and resentment.

But, because your ruthless soul wears the disguise of a human being, you end up trying to be nicer to make up for what you perceive to be a causal injustice. Vomits. Vomit and more vomit. What the hell are you doing in such a ‘perpendicular’ mess? How long do you really think you can keep up the appearance of appreciation? Why not confess? instead of presenting an idolized image of yourself that will be impossible to maintain? Just let the person know up front that he will not be placed in a situation that requires obligation of any kind. Call it intimacy issues or the fact that you don’t like the idea of ​​being responsible for or for another. It is a conviction of yours that for any true affable relationship to work, you need your space; although you will inadvertently try to suffocate, control, dominate, place, sublimate or stifle (whatever works best for you) and otherwise end up resenting the fact that you are contemplating.

If you are honest with yourself first, and then with the other, you will say that although you expect undivided attention and loyalty, you may be the first to get bored and restless in the middle of the night for no apparent reason. Tell your partner that you have no idea what true love means. {Humans are the learning process through the ruthless actions of the soul.} Although they are more than ready and willing to learn, it will not be easy or smooth for either of them. Also, you realize that you are selfish and self-centered and need to be pampered with words of encouragement, despite other unreasonable demands. In other words, you are at any given time at least 3 different people with completely different needs and desires.

You’ll be good at convincing the other that you want and need a committed relationship and want to be married with children more than anything in the world, but you don’t mean it. Do you like the idea; It sounds so romantic and safe, but you’ll have to let that pot of soup sit for a while before you can eat it. If you’re a little more honest from the start, the relationship might have a chance to survive.

Now, let’s explore one of the other distinct personalities in her complex makeup. There is a total division in everything that has just been recorded. Your need to be tamed dominates your need to be free and rebellious. [Your need to be stable/secure fuels your need to be adventurous and exploring.] The #2 personality continually feeds your mind unpleasant thoughts that as long as you are in a committed and dedicated loving relationship, filled with the ‘forever’ promises that come with it, you might finally be happy forever. But, at the same time, you’re so fiercely independent that it would be a bit more difficult to give up idealized dreams of what you want, to play housemate and mom. You really have quite a bit of sexual energy. I like to explore and I don’t want to get in the way.

As long as you can drive your shiny new black BMW and pick up the maid and nanny, vacation in the Bahamas at least twice a year, have an unlimited allowance for beauty essentials, the idea might grow on you. But anything less, there could be a little problem in the dictations. A sense of urgency never leaves you. You don’t have to know why, just be aware of its presence. You are impatient, full of constant distractions and dissatisfactions. Some of the lessons of being human also involve overcoming bigotry, superiority, intolerance, and prejudice.

life is full of hard options Infidelity is not one of them. Human beings are completely self-absorbed, selfish, and self-interested. You are not different. Autointoxication is the soft wine you consume the most. As a genuine human being (god/goddess/entity) fully participating in life here on earth, you are the proverbial father/mother/son/daughter/lover/friend in exile. It is the sublimely sacred designated realm/sphere of the crucifixion, including the unalterable capacity for authentic closeness. There is no need to try; you already are

Your chosen companion’s face will reveal the Ghastly/Exalted Masquerade. Coming to terms with this esoteric knowledge can take a lifetime. It is here, at another level of consciousness, that we first encounter the reality of living multi-level, multidimensional lives on many layers of existence that ultimately affect everything we do. (Not how we understand the term living in human form) This is too advanced a notion to be fully appreciated at this time, but it introduces the concept of complexity and certainty that everything that has happened or will happen is happening right now in the present. “…and everything was fine…” (Paraphrased)

Let things be. Release the need to expect certain things at certain times with certain results from certain people. You moisten your experience. You will eliminate the tendency to project the idea that the other person may disappoint or disappoint you. A meaningless event never happens. IF you get real with your three faces and watch them in action, you’ll let out a tremendously uplifting laugh. Integration is the key lesson to remember while inhabiting the earth plane. Your sensual, sacred, sacred, unexpressed, unlived, unfulfilled, unexplored, undelegated sexual artistic life will not arrive neatly bound in a pretty box adorned with bows and ribbons. (Far from it.) Can you handle it? Will you handle it? Be fully present in all relationships, willing to accept what you receive and give. Without conditions!