Child abuse: Can child abuse make someone believe they don’t deserve to exist?

The very fact that someone is on this planet, has incarnated, could be presented as evidence that they deserve to exist. But, even if this is so, someone could still believe that he doesn’t deserve to be here.

By having this belief, it will not be possible for you to see that life has been given to you and that you are worthy of the life that has been given to you. What happens inside will prevent them from accepting the truth.

its reality

However, this does not mean that one is aware of what one believes and how this belief is defining one’s life. Instead, the way they experience life could just be what is normal, preventing them from seeing what is happening.

Then they will have a lot of negativity inside them and their life is unlikely to be very satisfying, but they will not try to change it. That’s how life will be and they won’t feel like they deserve to experience life differently.

a bleak existence

Because of how they see themselves, being able to survive is likely to be seen as a great achievement. Being able to prosper and live a happy existence, on the other hand, may not even cross their minds.

This could be seen as something only other people can experience; those who deserve to be here. They might feel incredibly grateful that even their basic needs are being met.

subsisting

When it comes to their level of awareness, they are likely right at the bottom. The feelings that you have and your experiences are going to be aligned with these lower levels.

So, in addition to getting their basic needs met, they may be used to being treated badly and feel bad about themselves. The people closest to them may treat them worse and if they feel good, it may not be long before their negative inner critic shows up soon.

a very low place

Unlike the average person, they will not have a sense of their own worth or a healthy sense of entitlement. If you had these two elements in place, you would know that you not only deserve to be here, but that you deserve to have your ‘higher’ needs met.

Therefore, they can meet their basic needs and meet the needs that will allow them to thrive. This will allow them to grow and expand and live a life worth living.

What is happening?

It may seem strange why someone would be like this; however, it could make a lot of sense given what they likely went through during the beginning of their life. At this stage in their life, they may have been treated very poorly.

This would have meant that they did not receive the love, care and guidance they needed to develop in the right way. The problem is that now that they are adults, they may not remember what happened.

connecting the dots

If you could remember how you were treated at this stage of your life, you can see why your life is the way it is now that you are an adult. On the other hand, thanks to what is happening to them, this may not happen.

They might believe that the reason they were treated badly during this time is because they are bad and don’t deserve to be here. If this happens, it will be essential that they reflect on the fact that how they were treated as children does not mean that they have no value or that they do not deserve to be here.

That had place?

Perhaps this was a time in your life where you were abused and/or neglected. Instead of being treated like a special human being who deserved to be here, they would have been treated like worthless cargo.

It was not then up to their keepers to bring them into the world; it was as if they appeared out of nowhere and were completely unwanted. The way they were treated would have been seen as a sign that they were worthless and didn’t deserve to exist, due to being self-centered.

going forward

Ultimately, what happened was a reflection of what was happening to her caretakers and had absolutely nothing to do with them. In order for you to realize this at the core of your being, there is a very good chance that you will need to overcome many internal wounds.

Receiving positive feedback from others will also be important, but this is unlikely to have much of an impact until you start clearing your inner baggage. By embarking on this process, you will truly be able to accept and internalize the positive messages you receive from others.

Awareness

If someone can relate to this and is ready to transform their life, they may need to seek outside support. This is something that can be done with the help of a therapist or healer.